I'm No Expert

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You may have noticed the title of this blog – I’m No Expert. I am just the sum of my experience as a mother, which I am passionate about in practise and in theory, and I would like to share this with other mothers.

We know that this is a tough journey, we also know that it is the best journey we have ever undertaken, right? I remember the trepidation I felt during my first pregnancy – the fact that I didn’t even know how to hold a newborn, or what kind of clothing and baby care items I needed to take care of my child.

I would really like for this Blog to be some kind of a loose guide for new and expectant mothers, and a place where expectant, new and not-so-new mothers can come, read, laugh, cry, sympathise, empathise, maybe learn something useful, maybe disagree with me, comment and share.

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